I just took mr Jack out of the senario. I think we all know where you are coming from. lol... I understand. This has to be so frustrating to you.
Do you think that he might be having some sexual problems? That could be a problem that he doesn't want to deal with and maybe it is easier to take it by the hand so to speak. He probably doesn't want to admit it becasue it would make it real on his part. Just a thought.
My first husband would do something wierd. He would watch x rated movies by him self. If I came into the room, he would shut it off right away. For a while it made me feel like he was cheating, which he very well could have been. he was a sneaky guy. I never did get it. Kind of naive I guess. He said that the movies would make him want me more, but I think he would want the young blonde in the movie actually. lol...
I believe that he cheated numerous times, I kept getting stds and infections. And I was with only him. But like I say, I was very naive and now I can see it differently. Not to scare you. I don't think your husband is doing that to you. I think there is some underlying problem going on that he doesn't want to face. How old is he?
I hope that you get this figured out. And I know it is hurting you. but keep posting here, we will help you through this. Try to be objective about the whole thing. Try to look at his side of things, put yourself in his shoes if you can. That can be hard. Write things down. Often that helps you to sort things out.
Whatever you decide, we are behind you. So know that you have us here to try to help you through this.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies