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Date Joined Dec 2009
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   Posted 12/26/2009 12:03 AM (GMT -6)   
Well first of all i am happy to be on this site and let me be one of the last to wish you a very merry christmas but the reason i joined this site was to get some advice with my problem's

This is proabably going to sound stupid but whatever but who cares..... Ok m problems are not that serious well i mean there not like someone dying or Money troubles that alot of people have.

Its just i am a freshman in high school and i am starting ti have real bad depression. MAinly it is because of this girl that i like. I have liked her for almost a year but she barley seem's to notice me. I have looked up things like love addiction and it seems close to that. Like i think about her in a way i have never thought about any girl before. If any of you have ever been a teenage guy then you know what teenage guys think about SEX! when i liked and went out with other girls that's mainly what i thought about but with this girl it was diffrent i rarely thought about sex ever.I didnt think about female body parts or whatever i just thought about being around her at most making out. When she came around though i could never think of anything to say i was just dumbstruck. and its not like she is like the mega super hot skank of the school i mean i think she is beautiful and she is pretty popular but does not have like and giant female parts or anything so she isn't seen as like the hottest girl in school or anything.

But i do remember a few times when i did talk to her for extended periods of time like 5 minutes or so and i could make her laugh and it not be weird or anything i felt like king of the world and i was smiling for like several days at a time. But when i was around her and it was quiet and it was awkward i can get so deppressed like a few times i have just layed there listening to deppressive music staring at the wall for hours.I have even had dreams about this girl

Anybody got any advice diagnosis or insight? it would be much apprecitated.sorry about the bad spelling

Post Edited (.Mop) : 12/25/2009 10:08:05 PM (GMT-7)

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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 12/26/2009 5:14 AM (GMT -6)   
hi .mop. i am jamie, male and 37. i live in australia, so freshmen, is that high school? your youth is showing, this is to do with your wording. here in australia, what you seem to be going through is a crush. obvoiusly you are hitting that period when all of those hormones are rushing. hey, it is cool to like this girl, i know your anxoius, thus take it slow. go and have lunch together, talk, etc. good to be friends first, your mind will slow down, just try to not read too much into things first, otherwise you may get hurt. hoping this helps. welcome to the forum. jamie.

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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 12/26/2009 10:37 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Mop,
It does sound more like a crush than anything.  Whether you are depressed or not, I don't know.  But here are a few sites for you to check out and see if they can help you.
See if these sites can help you any.  Like I say, it sounds like you have a crush on her.  But what you need to do is take care of you.  Study hard in school.  And if it is meant to be, you will get together.  Let you know that you like her.  But don't come on too strong.  If it is meant to be, it will happen.
Best wishes to you.
Hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies

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