Talking with x-bf again, what now?

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   Posted 1/13/2010 12:36 AM (GMT -6)   
I went through a BAD breakup with my boyfriend a few months ago, and now we've been hanging out everyday. I've been away but now that I'm home we've been talking, hanging out, and having sex. I'm a fool, i know....

So now I'm worried what our status is. Ive asked multiple times, but he cant give me a straightforward answer. We had sex tonight and now I'm worried I may become pregnant. ... We used a condom though. Should I be worrying?

I've been so stressed all night about this, and on top of worrying about school and just about a BILLION other things, I don't know what to do.
{I understand your concern, but you need to keep your posts family-friendly.  Thanks. --serafena}

Post Edited By Moderator (serafena) : 1/13/2010 6:49:28 AM (GMT-7)

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   Posted 1/13/2010 8:08 AM (GMT -6)   
Don't stress yet youll have to wait 3 weeks and take a pregnancy test. It would be silly of me to say I wouldnt be too worried ... but every drop counts to make a rainbow as they say so take the test to be sure.
If he's not going to put a label on your status then you should stop. Don't let him think he can just hang out with you and have sex with you cuz you still have old flames. Cuz it'll hurt twice as bad as the first time when he gets another girl. Past experience, it sucks :(
If your having fun just hanging out then just keep it like that and dont get sexually involved.
Unless your okay with 'no strings attatched' relationship

Post Edited By Moderator (serafena) : 1/13/2010 6:47:38 AM (GMT-7)

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   Posted 1/13/2010 8:50 AM (GMT -6)   

It's unlikely that you would get pregnant in those circumstances, but if it makes you feel better, wait until you're about to have your period, and take a test. Of course, if you get your period, you're in the clear.

Good luck,
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   Posted 1/13/2010 11:42 AM (GMT -6)   
uhh, im so sorry. i didn't even realize what i typed.
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