You said when friends kiss you, you kiss back so that they don't get mad. Well, if the kiss is inappropriate, then you shoudlnt' worry about
them getting mad. If you don't want to kiss somebody, then don't let them kiss you. You have choices so make them. It is your choice too. Not theirs. Maybe you have to quit trying to please others so much. Please yourself. YOU are the one that counts in your life. Not the other person.
I am glad that you cut back on drinking, but it doesn't take much to cause you to lose your inhabitions.(sp)... It doesn't take much to do things that you wouldn't normally do. So do keep that in mind. And it doesn't take much to add to depression. Even if you don't get a buzz. So keep that in mind too. I know that you can't just stop over night, though I do know some people who have. So just work on quitting. It may take time, but with a doctors help, you would have a plan. And have some structure about
what it si that you want to do. So never give up.
You sound a little bit better now. I am happy for that. Keep us posted and let us know how things are going. And most of all, remember that we are here for you.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies