Is there any way that you can find out if he went to work or not? If he isn't, it is going to be hard to trust him. Especially when he is lieing to you. But if you find out yes he is now going to work, you are just going to have to trust. Either you do, or you don't. I don't know if it is something that you can learn to do. I think it is something that he has to earn. You can't just turn it on or off. It has to be earned by him.
You can choose not to worry about it while you are gone though. That way your mind isn't off wondering what he is doing, you will be focussing on work. But as far as learning to trust. I don't know if a person can actually do that until they know that they can trust.
Best wishes to you.
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