thankyou for your warm feelings. Ive been waiting for many years now, hoping that someone would come to their senses. But they never have and the daughters i knew then are nothing like the daughters ive tried to talk to on facebook. They are very cynical of me and hold a great respect for her. Their way of thinking mirrors my mothers personality, complete lack of empathy.
I feel shes ruined them completely. All the money and time she had to concentrate on their future. Neither of them have a trade, theyve been in and out of work. Not even married, and they are in their late twenties now.
theres one thing my mother cant do, and that is love. Ive never heard or seen any acts of affection. she used to brag about
how she ironed all our clothes and laid them out ready for the morning.
and this from a woman who left her 6 children (all under 12) and a loving husband at home, while she had an affair with her mates husband. Her mate has never gotten over this and still suffers.
Yes time will tell alright. But how much longer can she live? While shes alive its just going to carry on, and i dont want two 50year old daughters knocking at my door. But then i dont want to suffer this sadness anymore. There must be a way of getting out of this nightmare.
I have consoled myself with the thought of grandchildren. I wonder if i could have rights as a grandparent? I know my daughters will put up a fight but do i have rights?
It could be the light at the end of the tunnel perhaps?