My name is Seth, and i am currently in a relationship with someone who is suffering from depression. It started this summer when her father committed suicide. I was one of the first people to know about it, her brother called me the morning it happened. I was on my way to work and received a phone call from him. He wanted to wait until she was out of work to tell her, I told him this was a bad idea she deserved to know about it then not later. I went to her work and put her brother on the phone so he could tell her I did not think it was right for me to tell her. She was devastated. I brought her home and packed her suitcase, we live in New York her family lives in Rhode Island, did i also mention we are college students. The whole six hour drive she did not say a word, she blared the music I got her to eat something and that was it. For the next week I was under the most stress I have ever been in. The hardest part was being strong and not crying, knowing this man and being respected by him made it rough. It has been about seven months since this has happened. I love this girl and every single member of her family. She is and always will be the one that I love. After being together for two years we are currently on a break , she feels so guilty about being depressed and has anxiety about the smallest things. It does not help that we are both in college she decided to come back even though she went through one of the biggest and life changing events in her life. All I want to do is help but she pushes me away she says that she no longer has the tools to be in a relationship. She said that she has changed and i will admit that she has how could someone not after something like that. I just do not know what to do anymore should I continue to be that shoulder for her to cry on or should I let her be and move on. I miss who she used to be, I know that person is still in there I can hear it in her voice. I would do anything for this girl and this is the first time in my life that i can say that with complete honesty. If anyone has any advice or has been through something similar please post.