I think you know what you have to do. Quit treating your wife like you did your mother. Remember that you broke contact with her for a reason. And you don't want to lose your wife. But know that she isn't going to continue to take the treatment. So I don't know if she has already made a decision to leave or not, but if she has, it will already be too late to change her mind. Have you sat down and talked about
this to her? Have you told her that you are going to try to change?
I think you probably do this subconsciously. So you are going to have to try to be really mindful when it comes to her and play straight forward, no lieing, no manipulation. Just be you and be honest.
I hope that things work out for you and your wife. I hope that you can shake these actions and make things work. Best wishes to you. I hope that this helps in some way. Take care, keep posting and let us know how it is giong.
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