And welcome to HealingWell. I am glad that you have found us. Frances gave you some very good advice. I totally agree with the counseling.
Know that you are not alone in this. You have us now to help guide you through. But it is so important to have a professional counselor to talk to. Know that you are doing nothing wrong. What you are going through is normal. Grief has no rules, there is no right or wrong way of grieving. So anything is okay.
Know that your decision was the right thing for your wife's sake. And that there is no blame here. You made a choice together that you had to make and that is all that there is to it. So no guilt.
I hope that you keep posting. I want to say that I am so sorry for what you are going through. But things will come around and get better for you and your wife.
Best wishes to you.
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies