It sounds to me like you should forget about
this guy. He wants to keep reminding you about
you losing your virginity to the other guy. Does he get angry about
You said that the other guy is controlling. Well that isn't good either. It sounds like you are looking for the same type of guy that you were in love with. But everybody is different. You aren't going to find that in another guy.
It seems almost as you really don't know what it is that you want. Are you with somebody now? I honestly can't remember. Is it the second guy or a third guy? It seems you said that you really aren't sure about
this decision. It sounds like you have some codependancy problems. There is a book called "codependent no more" you might want to read.
You have to learn to love yourself for who you are. I don't think badly of you. I just think you have to learn more about
being in an relationship and not settle when you aren't happy.
Do you go to any counseling? It might be good for you. I think that your self esteem is a little low right now and that would help you with that.
It sounds like you are still quite young too. You learn that there is a lot of give and take in a relationship. But you shouldn't have to live with anybody treating you badly.
Keep posting, I would like to discuss this some more with you.
It is getting late, and I am growing tired.
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