Welcome to HealingWell. I am so happy that you have joined us.
Who told you that your boyfriend was only with you because he felt sorry for you? Him, or his other girlfriend? Did he confess about
the other girl? Was she at the hospital?
You are better off without him. It sounds like he is using both of you. And he does not deserve you. I know that you feel hurt. But try to look at it this way. He is the bad person. There is nothing wrong with you. You are a good person and you will learn from this. Just chalk it up to experience and be glad that you didn't get more involved with him. There are a lot of bad people out there, but there are a lot of good people such as yourself. Maybe this was meant to be. That you find out I mean, not that he got shot. And I am sorry for that by the way. But I am more concerned about
you. I want you to know that you don't have anything wrong with you. I was adopted, so I can kind of understand what you are going through. It is hard when you don't know your real parents. And you do wonder why the situation had to be so. But all in all, you are a valuable person and you are worthy of love and affection. And you will find it, just not with this guy.
Know that we are all here for you at Healing Well and that we care about
you very much. Keep posting and let us know how you are getting on. Are you going to any counseling? You may want to think about
it, as I think you could use some good support right about
now. Even though you are angry at him, it still was an ordeal that he got shot, so I am sure that is effecting you.
Take care my dear. I hope that you decide to stay with us.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies