Try not to hate anybody. It only makes us sad inside. It is better to be used a little than to not trust people. People like that will be in and out of our lives for the rest of our lives. And if you continue to hate, you will only feel bad. Learn to forgive, and eventually you will be on to these types of people and they wont be able to use you anymore. Stay the same sweet person that you already are.
I find that when I don't trust people, it only makes me paranoid. So I guess that I let people take advantage of me now and then. But I have chosen my friends carefully and no longer get used.
Learn to say "no". There are times when it is okay to say no. That is a hard one, I know, but weigh out the differences of saying yes and saying no. And know that when you do say no, it is for the right reasons. Sometimes we have to look after ourselves in these situations.
Know that saying no is okay.
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