I can see the importance of keeping a clean house. Ours is small so it is cluttered, but I make my way through it. I know where everything is, just can't always get to it.lol...
But yes, I can see your frustration, and she is not helping the kids by not making them clean up after themselves.
I am finding that this computer takes up a lot of my time. I find myself sitting in front of it when I could be doing something else. Maybe that is what is going on with her. It is addicting. But her lack of family interaction really surprises me. You would think she would care a little more. I feel bad for the kids, once they get out on their own, they wont have a clue. But what can you do??? You have tried your best. And not getting anywhere is terribly frustrating for you, I can see that. Hopefully when they grow up, they will see how hard you tried to help them.
One day at a time is all we can do. I think you will be much happier once you move. Keep your chin up. Keep trying. That is the best that you can do at this point.
Keep posting and let me know how things are going. Thanks for the update. I see things more clearly now.
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