I would also like to welcome you to healing well. Boy you have just been through a lot. I think you got some good advice just now from some very experienced members.
You will have to move on from this. And you will. You will meet somebody new in time that is the right fit for you. I am sorry he ended things so childishly. Texting is not the way to do it, but.... he did, so that is that. So much for modern methods. I don't text myself. Basically because it is hard for me, but I still think it is silly at times. But that is besides the point.
This sounds like your first love. We always remember that first guy. And I know that it hurts right now. But time does heal and you will go on. Though it is going to be hard at first. But you will get there.
Stay busy, take life one day at a time right now. See friends, to take your mind off of things. Unless you have one that you can really trust to talk to. That would be a good thing, or counseling as was mentioned above.
I remember breaking up with my first boyfriend. It was devistating at that time. But there have been many since, marriages, and all that. My first husband died of cancer in 2000. I swear that I would never get married again. Here it is 2010 and I am married again. lol... So there is somebody for everybody. It just takes time and patience to find that person. And you will find somebody more mature and who will love you and treat you good.
So take care my friend. Keep posting, let us know how things are going. We are all here for you through this difficult time.
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