Welcome to the HealingWell depression forum. I am very happy that you have joined us.
It may take a rude awakening for her to see what she is doing to your relationship. She is insecure and jealous. Both of which are hard to live with. You may have to throw in the towel so to speak to get her to get some help. If you threaten her with leaving the relationship unless she gets help, she may give it a try. She will learn a lot about
herself that she doesn't like, but hopefully that will help her to change.
I couldn't myself live with that. I don't know how you do it. You have to have a life and she needs one too. I would continue to suggest counseling and if she doesn't go, I would test the waters and see if an ultimatum would help. As long as you put up with her bs, you aren't going to be happy. She could be happy with help, so I would make her do it.
Best wishes to you. I hope that things work out between the two of you.
PS I deleted your other post as they both said the same thing.
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