I agree with you that he got way too upset over a little thing. You can always purchase the item later on. It sounds like he built it up to his sister when he shouldn't have because he didn't know for sure that he was going to get this item. So I totally agree, it is no big deal. But don't let this become a big deal either. Let it roll off of your back.
As far as his sister being in the middle of your relationship, that would probably bother me too. It is as if he can't make a move without her and that would put a huge strain on the relationship as far as I am concerned. It should be about him and you and nobody else. So I think you have a right to be upset. Though I wouldn't let it bring you down. You have worked far too hard and come way to far to let this bring you down. So keep your self in gear to continue to move forwards. Not back.
I do have full confidence that you wont let this bring you down. None of it. Keep posting and know that we are here for you.
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