communication is key. both of you need to do this without the little ones. a good thing to try is the 5 minutes you and the 5 minutes me teqniche. toss a coin to see who starts, then the person who starts speaks there peice, without any interuption, then the other does their peice. in this both people are respected via 'actually' listening to each other, thus at the end you will know how each other feels about
what was said. you can make it a topic or it can be
open. no interuptions though. it works. all the best.
the mad professor
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