Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum. I am so glad that you have decided to join us. And I hope that we can help you some. Have you tried talking to him? Letting him know that he at least needs to pick up after himself. And that you would appreciate a little help with the children? I think it would be a good idea to try to express yourself. If you can't do it on your own, how about couples counseling? You need to do something to help the children most of all and that comes from the actions of the adults. So you will need to start with you and him. Especially if he is getting verbally abusive. It is strange how some people can change after they get married. But being in a relationship like this it is give and take on both sides. And he needs to be helping you. And if he is getting verbally abusive, that needs to be addresed, the children are going to suffer the most from this and it sounds like your son already is. So think about the couples counseling and maybe some counseling for yourself for support and direction. I hope that this helps some.
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