What about doing some of the more simpler free things in life, such as a day at the beach, maybe a picnic? Go to the river, go fishing. There are a lot of free things to do, but if fatigue is the issue, I would talk to the doctor about that. I take adderall for fatigue and that really helps. Maybe you don't want medications, then try meditation to give you a boost.
By the sound of it you are limited on time too, working two jobs, maybe a movie for the family in the evenings would be nice. Try to designate some family time into your schedule if you can, it may make you feel more relaxed. It sounds difficult for you right now, but as long as you are wanting to spend time with family, you are on the right track.
I hope that things work out good for you. I went to write good and started to write food. That must be on my mind. lol...
Take care, keep posting. And I forgot---Welcome!!!
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies