I understand your desire to be with an intelligent girl. But I find it rather arrogant and
insulting to all of the many intelligent and charning girls that do live in Kansas. Surely
there are some. You mentioned that your Canandian friend did not seem as interested as before. Have you personally spoken to her by phone? I appreciate that you took the
time to answer my last post, however, you neglected to answer specific questions I asked you. You said you are 22, are you still that age or are you older now? You didn't mention anything else about this girl other than your attraction to her She is in college but not yet finished. You said she told some jokes of a sexual nature. Do you think that
demonstates intelligence? You seem to have high standards in what you would like in
female companionship and that is good. Just don't overlook someone who has good qualities and other attributes that are appealing. I am not trying to be hard on you. I just
want you to take your time with this and really think through all aspects of a relationship. I only speak from the experience I have had with my son. He had a four plus year relationship with a very beautiful and intellingent young woman. They were together in the same city for two of those years. Then she went away to get a masters degree at a very prestigious university. They kept the relationship going and became
engaqed. The wedding was all planned, we were all so happy. And then it disintegrated and they broke up. My son is in his 30s. He is now so glad he did not marry her. A lot of thought and care was put into that relationship but even then it didn't work. So I guess what I am saying is take your time, get to know someone.
And try not to be such a narcissist. I don't think that is a quality an intelligent girl would find admirable.