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Date Joined Sep 2010
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   Posted 9/10/2010 12:54 AM (GMT -6)   
I never had a boyfriend ever.  I never had neone ever it feels like.  The friends i thought were my bestfriends have all been lost.  One is still here but I still feel like I cant tell her everything.  I feel forever alone even in a crowded room feels like nobody sees me.  I feel worthless my life is always the same.  I know i'm the only one who can change it. but its hard the hardest thing ever.  You just feel used in the end.  I miss being happy.

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Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 20279
   Posted 9/10/2010 2:32 AM (GMT -6)   
hi kayrt. jamie here.
sometimes life can suck, but we only get 1 shot at it.
am sorry that you are feeling down. i feel that a chat with a
counsellor will help you. what you are going thru may well be
what we call situational depression, and this abaits quickly
with good interventions. although if you feel that you have
and are down longer then i feel a chat with your dr. is
warranted. depression caught early can and usually is treated
and the effects of such maybe less intense than say if you
do not get it looked at earlier. hey, you are you, so be you
love you and be true. sending healing thoughts your way.
all the best, you have done well in posting, i hope you
continue to do so, this is a very caring community.
the mad professor.

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Date Joined Jul 2010
Total Posts : 200
   Posted 9/10/2010 7:03 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey Kayt,
I'm so sorry you are feeling this way and it really isn't a nice feeling.

Theres a girl at my school who has been feeling like this, nobody realised she did because she prefered to isolate her self because she didn't think she was worth anything so everyone was afraid to approach her because they thought she would hate them, but really thats what she wanted she just didnt show it because she thought everyone hated her and didnt notice her... but everyone wanted to be friends with her and take her into their friendship groups! A few months ago i went up to her and we talked, she said she was feeling all the things you described.. but i told her people really wanted to be friends with her, she was shocked.. but now shes starting to fit in and become more confident.. i think like jamie said. a counsiller would be good just to sort things out!

You can do it and everyone at healing well will support you and give you the advice we can!


15 years old,
Chronic stomach pain with no diagnosis yet and lots of other things.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 9/10/2010 9:36 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey Kayte,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum. You have come to a good place. You will get support here and hopefully you will realize that you are a good person and worthy of love.

Keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
  Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies

New Member

Date Joined Sep 2010
Total Posts : 2
   Posted 9/11/2010 4:02 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey Kayte right now i am going through the same thing as you and on top of that my parents have a drinking problem so i know what your feeling and i know it feels horrible but some day it will get better ,i mean it cant stay this way can it?

Maybe one day set a target for yourself and say going say hey to this person or something like that or if your close friend is in with a group of people talking try to get involved in the discussion too.

You will get support and help here.

Keep in touch :)

Hugs,This is me.

Regular Member

Date Joined Feb 2010
Total Posts : 66
   Posted 9/11/2010 11:00 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey Kayt,
I can't tell you that this is all going to get better by itself.  But I promise you, if you don't take action toward these feelings now, you never will, and you'll end up feeling isolated and alone for the rest of your life.  Trust me, I had the same feelings as you do right now, and I never got them wholly fixed, and now I'm in college and isolated all of the time, with absolutely no one to talk to.  I always feel alone now, and though I've grown used to the feeling, it still is very depressing to not feel worthy enough of other people.
Please, Kayt.  Go and talk to someone, so that you can learn to love yourself.  Because not only is that the first step in feeling that others love you, but it is also a step toward happiness.  Trust me; don't end up like me.. Please! 
Best Wishes.  I'm very sorry you feel this way. cry
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