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Date Joined Sep 2010
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   Posted 9/13/2010 11:26 PM (GMT -6)   
hi well i am 19 yr old and i have a one yr bby. me and my ex got together in high school we had our ups and downs but we reasently broke up cause he was flirting alot and never had time for us he was allways in football college or just tierd one day i got mad and told him that if he loveed football so much to keep it.. the next day we talk like watever nothing had happend then the next sunday he came he was mad and didnt wanna kiss me cause soppoesly we werent together. i was  really mad so i was crying the hole time he was here till his mom came to pick him up i told his mom everything that was going on and when he heard that i told her that h was getting red shirted in football and he was missing classes he got mad and took of walking she left to look for him and didnt find him hes dad had to come all the way from his house to pick him up at 1am and since then he moved in with his dad. i try talk ing to him and he is somethins nice but then he turns and acts like a total jurk. well 3 day ago i read his facebook stutes and it said things like "heartbroken""when is she gonna realize i could love her &care for here better that him? oh well am just gonna pray hope and wait that one day i could hold her in my arms" and i fould out that he started to talk to this girl befor we statrd to argue and she lives in the same block that him but she just got a bf and his older that him and wouldnt eventhink of dating him. so today i asked him if we are even going to try working things out not only for us but for our bby to i love him and i wanna really be with him but he said that we cant cause i am toooo jealouse and he hates me now casue i dont let him be hapy but all i want is to be with him and my son and be a happy family but wat should i do??? i really want us to work? oh and he thinks he has too much things in mind cause he goies to college and football.. i go to college work take care of our son and everything for him on my own 100% an still manage to have time for him !!!!

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   Posted 9/14/2010 9:56 AM (GMT -6)   
It sounds like both of you have a lot of growing up to do. This will come with time. And experience. Does it look like her oculd have a career in football? Let him try. And make friends for you so you aren't so lonely. Growing up is hard. Especially with a baby. But keep your little one's best interest at heart and you can't go wrong. You will learn to give him space as he will you. You can't be together 24/7, you will get on eachother's nerves if you are. This will work out. It is give and take. So learn to give as well as take. By that I mean space.

Best wishes to you and your little one.

Hugs, Karen
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