MAJOR FAMILY CRISIS...HELP!

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erie2494
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   Posted 9/16/2010 7:33 PM (GMT -6)   
I am 15 years old. For as long as I can remember, my dad has had abuse problems. They have been physical and verbal towards my mom, brother, and me. He is an alcoholic but denies it. He has been arrested in the past for domestic abuse; I called the cops and then was ostracized for it by my brother. Last week, he had a big fight with my mom. He punched her and now she has a huge bruise. He sat down with me and my mom earlier and they both apologized for what happened. He said he "guaranteed" that it would never happen again. But I don't believe him. He has said this in the past and then another fight has broken out. I am so confused. I don't know what to think. I absolutely hate him and wish he wasn't my father. He is an embarassment. Sometimes in public he will get in my face and pull his arm back as if he is getting ready to punch me. I am scared of him and really want my parents to get divorced. My mom has a lawyer already and just has to sign the papers. But she hasn't done it yet. She keeps saying that she'll do it (for months) but she hasn't. I don't want anything to do with him. As soon as I am 18, I'm gone and I don't ever want to see him again. I just don't know what to do right now. When we were all talking, he kept interrupting me when I spoke. So I called him an 'a******' and he shut off my phone service. I am REALLY angry right now. I wish he was dead. I am so angry and just don't know what to do. Can someone help me please? And any advice to get my phone back?
 
I NEED SOMEONE TO GET BACK TO ME ASAP BECAUSE I AM FURIOUS RIGHT NOW AND WANT TO SCREAM. HELPPPP.

Post Edited (erie2494) : 9/16/2010 6:44:30 PM (GMT-6)


erie2494
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   Posted 9/16/2010 9:05 PM (GMT -6)   
I just tried to apologize to my dad for cursing at him. I talked to my mom first, and then she went to wake him up. He got mad at her, I started crying, and it just went back to the same old fighting situation. I knew he wasn't going to change. But I'm just so upset because I thought of such a good apology and then he got mad at my mom for it. I shouldn't have said anything in the first place because then this wouldn't have happened. So I'm crying now. And I'm so upset.  :'(

erie2494
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   Posted 9/16/2010 9:22 PM (GMT -6)   
he's in our family room. my mom is in her room and i'm on mine. i'm up here talking to my friends on facebook and crying. idk what my hom's doing. it's just really confusing and upsetting. we're safe though. he's not being violent. just verbally abusive.

erie2494
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   Posted 9/16/2010 9:37 PM (GMT -6)   
there are a lot of siobhan laurie's. find me: erin geerlof
and i don't go on petville that often. i'm actually gonna try and go to bed soon. i have school tomorrow -___-

erie2494
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   Posted 9/16/2010 9:38 PM (GMT -6)   
found you

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 9/16/2010 11:55 PM (GMT -6)   
hi jamie here.
 
glad you have found us. i see siobhan has and is giving you guidance. we are here to support you. thus i too say hi and welcome. keep being strong. with compassion,
jamie.
 
the mad professor.
YESTERDAY IS A BUTTERLY WITHOUT WINGS. (ME)
 
DX, MDD, SEVERE BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
 
REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.
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