I dont know what to do

Am I crazy?
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nowwhat???
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Date Joined Sep 2010
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   Posted 9/19/2010 5:01 PM (GMT -6)   
 I feel so sad and mad and like i just want to go to sleep until things go back to the way they were.  but I cant do that because i have to take care of my kid, and go to work full time, and study for a test next week, and write a huge paper...  cant concentrate when my wife wants a devorce and i dont know where ill live. 
 
I cought my pregnant wife smoking yesterday.  she is 3months and has been smoking for at least 3 weeks now.  She said she was sorry at first but now she is turning it around on me.  she said that i was stalking her and that im psycho for not talking to her about it first.
 
Am i crazy for going to the store parking lot and watching her smoke?  am i crazy for keeping track of the ashes stuck to her side window every day?  she says i am.
 
someone please help.
 
btw, she told me over and over that she quit.

nowwhat???
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   Posted 9/19/2010 5:45 PM (GMT -6)   
Thank you shuvvykins.

that is a help. im planning on going to marrage counciling next week.

if I could get one more person to tell me im not crazy that would be great. you people just reading and not posting- i will not be offended if you tell it like it is, so please let me know what you are thinking.

Karime
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   Posted 9/19/2010 5:53 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey nowwhat,
You are not crazy and dont even think you are because later you will believe that lie. Is your wife the one that is extremely wrong. In first place she shouldnt be smoking because now is not just about her health but also of another human being inside of hers. You acted like that becasue you are concern and you care. I am sorry to hear that you are going through a divorce and all that. You are somehow depressed too but dont let yourself down. I think you should sit down and tell her that you want to talk and if she ignores you or dont want to hear you than just try to get counceling help. I am also going through some depression as well but is a different situation. But if you feel like talking, i will be able to listen and i dont know if you are religious but is always good to keep god in present and pray. There is a saying (After a hurricane the calm comes) There is ups and downs in life, hernandez_miriam20@yahoo.com I will be able to listen. take care.
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