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Date Joined Jul 2006
Total Posts : 1257
   Posted 9/22/2010 8:42 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Cass, I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are doing. I know you have been going through a rough time. I just wanted you to know I am concerned about you and hope things are easing up for you. Please send a reply if you see this. I haven't been
on very much. I have been busy trying to get my son moved and adjusted to living on
his own and I am still trying to settle into life on my own as well. Take good care of
yourself and I hope to hear from you.

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Date Joined Dec 2005
Total Posts : 1768
   Posted 9/22/2010 9:04 PM (GMT -6)   
I was thinkin about you too! I almost called you last night but it was pretty late and I didn't want to wake you.

Hang in there, my friend.


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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted Yesterday 1:35 AM (GMT -6)   
hugs from me too- cass, aurora and monkiray.

jamie, the mad professor.

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   Posted Yesterday 6:18 AM (GMT -6)   
And hugs from me to Cass, Aurora, Moonkiray, and Jamie. lol...
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Date Joined Feb 2003
Total Posts : 900
   Posted Yesterday 7:59 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks, Aurora, Monkiray, Karen, Jamie and Shuvy.
I'm sorry.  I didn't mean to worry anyone unduly, but yes things have gotten even worse lately.  I can't go into too many details in the online environment but here is a brief gist of what's been happening:
*Family friend offered to buy house and rent back to me so I could keep me and my girls stable here.
*Bank denied me for shortsale w/friend because I signed mortgage modification and haven't been delinquent on my loan in 3-4 months.  I took modification so that I wouldn't have to worry about losing home when trying to sell it.
*My lawyer convinced bank to take another look at my case.
*Then family friend had family member with financial emergency.  Pulled out of deal a few days ago.
*House is now on active status to be shown again to sellers.  Showings will start next Sunday.  I now need to totally reclean house (i.e. purging closets, cellar,) and cleaning, polishing, waxing.....
*Do lots of yard maintenance.
**If buyer comes along in time, sale could still be denied by banks or a particular lienholder on my house.
**Need to save funds to move out now. 
**No job on horizon.
.....Life pretty much bites right now.  Monkiray, I also am sick with asthma type symptoms and cannot speak more than a few words at a time without going into a coughing fit.  When I'm feeling human again, I'll give you a call. Hopefully, this weekend.
..Look I know we all have our own issues and problems here.  But for 2 years now I've just been looking for "one" single break somewhere.  It's not like I'm sitting on my behind and waiting for the world to come to me.  And I'm not trying to milk any system.  I work hard at my measly temp job that I'm grateful to have.  But nothing I do seems to make a difference in a positive sense.
I'm sorry to be ranting here.  I'm just not a happy camper at the moment.

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Date Joined Dec 2005
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   Posted 9/26/2010 9:46 PM (GMT -6)   
(((((BIG HUGS))))) and lots of love to you Cass.

It's hard when things have been going so crappy for so long. You really do need something to turn around so you'll have something positive to revel in. Every once in a while if 1 thing went right, it would help you make it through the bad stuff that just doesn't seem to end. I wish I could do something to help you. If I win the lottery (which, of course, is my ultimate plan) I'll definitely let you know, as you've been there for me so many times.

Don't feel bad about not calling. Since starting delivering pizza last week I haven't talked to much of anyone (except Mom and Dad and sis). Just call me when you feel up to it and feel like talking.

Hang in there...eventually things will start working themselves out. Until then, you're stronger than you think and can make it!

Dx with Crohn's in '97 after emergency resection and appendectomy, 2nd resection '05, Pulmonary emboli 10/09
Currently on Humira, Omeprazole, Effexor, Seroquel, Calcium, Vit D, Aspirin, B12 shots monthly
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