Just joined this group
Im going out of my mind at the moment not knowing which way to turn...
Caught my husband of nine years having an affair eight months ago ,, I knew for several weeks before confronting him I wanted all the evidence I could get first,, But when confronted he denied it ,,Now to much has gone on for me to list but in short he told me he loved her.... I managed to read emails and texes ect where they were making plans for a future ,,moving house taking holidays... the texes were also very itimate,,,,,,
Very quickly my husband decided he no longer wanted these things with her and he had made a dreadful mistake he wanted me but he kept in contact with her also .... After the days and weeks that followed it also came out he had seen another women as the first one had children...He would never have told me this had i not found out myself..
This is my third marrige and to my knowledge had not been cheated on before,,, but this came as a huge huge blow as I trusted and love this man deeply....
My problem is I just cant move on ( we are having counceling ) this is not helping me at all I feel the same as the day I found out I no longer trust him and will never trust him again ....Should I get out now or give it a little longer ,,,Would be greatful for any advice