I am so sorry to hear about your mom. This must be really difficult for you. It takes time to grieve so be patient with yourself and good to yourself.
As for the welbutrin, yes it can make you jittery, you might need more of your anti anxiety med. But I think that this will go away in time. I did good on wellbutrin until they raised the dose, then I couldn't sleep at night. I hope that it works for you. I use to take provigil, but take adderall now. It keeps me awake during the day. It doesn't make me jittery unless I forget to eat. Some people can't handle it though because it is an amphetamine. But it really works good for fatigue. I have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue along with depression.
I hope that you get to feeling better soon. Keep us posted on how you are doing.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies