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Baby Horse
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Date Joined Nov 2010
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 		   Posted 11/3/2010 5:04 PM (GMT -6)   
My ex boyfriend wants me back but i don't have feelings for him anymore and i don't know how to say no to him and my bouyfriend really doesn't want me to leave him. he cares about me soo much! I don't know what the right thing to do is, i really need help. this is affecting my school work and i don't want to do anything, i don't have the energy like i used to. can some one please help me???
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stkitt
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 		   Posted 11/3/2010 5:11 PM (GMT -6)   
Baby Horse,
 
Looks like you have already moved on so I would just let the ex-boyfriend mosey on down the trail and you take care of you. This  would include your health, happiness and education.  You do not owe the ex any explanation in my opinion.
 
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Kitt
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theHTreturns...
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 		   Posted 11/4/2010 2:50 AM (GMT -6)   
yeah, if you do not be straight -up with him he may think the relationship hasn't ended.
say what you have said in your post, i no longer have feelings for you and i need to move forward with my life. kind regards, jamie.
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Shrub
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 		   Posted 11/4/2010 3:42 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey Baby Horse,

I so agree with jaimee and Kitt on this one. We talked on chat last night (your time 7.30 pm)
and I believe you need to be true to yourself and tell him exactly what you said in your post.
You don't owe him anything but you do owe yourself the chance to feel better about your life.
Don't lead him on by giving him any of your time and he will soon realize you are serious and are moving on.
Be strong, and take care.

((((((Baby Horse))))))

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Shrub
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