Dealing with lack of trust

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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 2/12/2005 4:04 PM (GMT -6)   

Hello, I wanted to know if some one can give me their advice I’m in real need of others views.


I’m 23 years, I’ve been with my boyfriend for six years, (yes 6), there is no wedding bells in the future because we both don’t  believe in marriage. Through out the years he made me become jealous of his female friends, he is a musician so he meets a lot of people, three years ago he meet someone whom I had a problem with out knowing her. He saw that it was a problem so he told me he wouldn’t talk to her any more.


Here is the problem I found a text message to her which in he expression some affect to her in one word and said that we where no longer together. Why? I don’t we were not having any problem. I confronted him and he said it was a joke and nothing is serious is going on. After a few days I learned that he does like her. I tried to talk to him about him put the emotion are overwhelming I just being to cry, scream, and just question what did I do wrong.


The being problem is that this has have at my end of rope he was the last person whom I had trust no one else I have no one. Now I feel in despair and have no outlet. I’ve lost 3 pound in the past few days I sleep for 3 hours at night and nothing seem right.


If some can just give I few words that will make every minute of my life a bit easier so I know that out there some one is caring.


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Date Joined Aug 2004
Total Posts : 139
   Posted 2/12/2005 5:22 PM (GMT -6)   
May I suggest that you find another male companion. Someone you can trust and help you to express yourself more clearly. It is difficult to read your submission in order to be concise with some sort of advice.

May I suggest also that perhaps yout mother and father could get involved with helping you get your life in order. Most parents are interested in giving a helping hand to set you on the proper path. Perhaps you have older siblings as well that coud be of assistance.

It doesn't appear that you are depressed. yeah :-) cool

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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 2/12/2005 5:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Ralph Thanks for thanking your time, It is realy hard for others to see your pain. With including my family in my emotion is like adding more to their every day life. I have two brothers and one is in the Army and is missing for about two years, so my emotion are not in their prioraty. But thanks again.
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