It sounds like your husband has some issues. Especially with the dogs. That is no excuse for you not to be able to go out and get a job if that is what you want to do. He sounds controlling, do you want to deal with this the rest of your life is the question... Maybe seeing a counselor would help you to deal with this. It would help you set some boundaries and get you to be a little more assertive about
what you want and need.
I am sorry that he doesn't appreciate your children. I hope that this changes. They can sense this and that is not good. Keep showing them lots of love to make up for the lack of his compassion.
I would seriously speak to a counselor. You will know better where you stand in this relationship. I hope that things get better for you soon. Keep posting and let us nkow how you are doing. Take care...
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