i cant stand it anymore

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worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/21/2010 11:46 PM (GMT -6)   
I Hate my job. please do not tell me not to hate, if you knew what i deal with then you would know why. i cant report him as i would get in trouble, and yes i am deleting any workers from my facebook. well he writes on a nother coworkers facebook to a reply i sent to her status about me not calling back yesterday when he called. excuse me i am on vacation i dont have to but the reason i didnt answer was because my phone was dead and then i went to see harry potter so i didnt the message til almost midnight and i called and talked to my assistant to find out what was wrong. well he says on fb to suck his ass and that he had to pay out of his pocket for my mistake. im sorry i didnt make a mistake its not my fault the lady lied and said id replace the whole order. he then says you can give a pill to fix crazy but you cant cure stupid. please dont tell me to report him as i cant as i can get in trouble too although she was on my fb when she quit the job and now that she is back i dont see why i have to term the friendship. i feel so empty inside. i feel hollow. i feel like i am a failure, a screw up

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worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/22/2010 12:45 AM (GMT -6)   
i have confronted him and he always turns it on me. he never admits when he is wrong, in fact i dont see that even thinks he is wrong. he thinks he is always right and whats worse is he has everyone eating out of his hands. he throws adult temper tantrums when refuse to jump when he says jump or that it seems like this is a temper tantrum.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/22/2010 12:54 AM (GMT -6)   
when i can prove it yes i am willing. right now im trying for a transfer to get out of there first. if i can get a transfer then i can avoid the confrontation and keep everyone happy as i will lose anyways. he has this company eating out of the palm of his hands.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/22/2010 1:29 AM (GMT -6)   
maybe shuvy if it cant be resolved another way. i am on my way to bed now, i did talk to a friend, tyyoungmil which helped me feel better. i just wish i can figure out how not to feel so empty inside. i feel hollow and unneeded and i hate it. its worse at night.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

getting by
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   Posted 11/22/2010 8:35 AM (GMT -6)   
You can't continue to have to calm down because of this person, I wont call him a man either. You are blaming yourself and trying to adjust everything to suit his whims. This isn't right. You are a victem here. I hope that you can transfer. Does that mean that you wont be working under him anymore? That would be best. Or start looking for another job if you don't feel up to dealing with this situation. This person needs to be fired. What they are doing to you isn't right. That is my opinion. What about the labor board? Have you thought or contacting them, this is unappropriate working conditions. It is unlawful. Calling you on your days off. That is bull. You don't live for the job, you work there. I Know employers often ask for a little more, but this is rediculious. I hope that you get this sorted out. You haven't done anything wrong. Don't be afraid of this person. Don't let him run your life.

Hugs, Karen
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worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/22/2010 8:58 AM (GMT -6)   
yes if i transfer i wont be under him anymore. im sorry i know you guys are probably sick of me complaining about it but if i dont vent im gonna snap and do something stupid so i vent. if you would like me to stop i will. i just need someone. i am depressed and i feel it. i think even hubby knows it because he keeps asking what is on my mind.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

getting by
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   Posted 11/22/2010 3:58 PM (GMT -6)   
You are under a lot of stress. You need to vent here so that you can keep composed at work. I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you can transfer and that it wont be too much of a problem doing so. You need a break form this situation.

Hugs, Karen
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worriedgirl
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   Posted 11/22/2010 5:50 PM (GMT -6)   
i do, but can i ask a favor from you guys. tomorrow is the year anniversary of my moms death and im not sure how i am gonna be. can i get some prayers that i remain strong
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are
 
"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

getting by
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   Posted 11/23/2010 10:21 AM (GMT -6)   
Sending many hugs and prayers.

Know that you are loved here. We all care about you. You will get through this and we will help you.

Hugs, Karen
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