I understand that you are hurt. I imagine that he was too embarrassed to tell you the truth in the beginning, and I imagine that he is struggling with guilt now because he wasn't honest with you. So I am trying to look at his side of it. I hope that he isn't lieing to you now. Is there a chance that he found a ring in your jewelry box and sized the ring with that?
Does he lie to you often? Some people are just lilke that. But that would be hard for me to handle, as you would never know if he was telling the truth or not. It is hard to trust somebody who has lied to you. So I think your feelings are validated by that. Try not to be hard on yourself for feeling hurt. It is only natural to feel that way.
How did he know what your size was for the first ring? Is there a chance that he just remembered it? I hope that he is getting you a new ring. And I hope that it is a beautiful one and that you love it. Don't feel bad for being upset. Wait and see what happens with this next ring. I do think it was romantic for him to propose to you again. And he is probably feeling really embarrassed about
the first ring incident. So try to give him a break and wait and see if he is being honest this time. If not, it may be time to rethink your relationship. Or have a discussion about
him telling the truth to you. Maybe even some counseling would help.
But I am like you. When somebody lies to me, I don't trust anymore. I hope that things get better. Keep posting and let us know.
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