Hey sas, glad to see you reaching out for help beyond us old crohnies. Can't help with the lexapro questions but glad to see you here and asking.
We can respond to irritation with a smile instead of scowl, or by giving warm praise instead of icy indifference. By our being understanding instead of abrupt, others, in turn, may decide to hold on a little longer rather than to give way. Love, patience, and meekness can be just as contagious as rudeness and crudeness.