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Date Joined Dec 2010
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   Posted 12/1/2010 9:27 AM (GMT -6)   

I am 20 years old...
I have recently just suffered a miscarriage at 10 weeks, I don't want to feel as though im making a fuss or just making up excuses but I have been feeling really down since it happened just under 2 weeks ago.
My boyfriend (we split up yesterday) is oblivious to this because he doesn't want children and he has his own problems concerning the daughter he already has from a previous relationship and im too scared to tell him cus we have been arguing a lot lately.. and im scared he might think its just to get him back i do love him but he has been calling me weird cus i don't wanna go out or socialise.
And to make matters worse i got laid off my job in october so thats added more pressure overall. I really don't know what to do i want to be with him but he's not interested.

Please help? x

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   Posted 12/1/2010 10:37 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi there,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum. I am so glad that you have joined us.

I am sorry to hear about the miscarraige. That must have been horrible. Expect to grieve in your own time. There is no time limit on grief. It is all up to the individual. And any amount of time is okay. You may want to check out a site called This might help you some. I am not sure.

Did your boyfriend know that you were pregnant? Does he know about the miscarriage? It might do you good to talk to him and explain what happened if he doesn't already know. He might surprise you and come around and be understanding. I am sure that he wouldn't want you to hurt so much.

I am sorry about your job. Are you looking for another one at this time? It is hard to find jobs these days, so don't give up on that situation. Keep trying.

I know that you are down. And it is only natural, as you have been through so much. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing. There are a lot of wonderful kind and caring members here. You will get the support that you need.

Think about counseling. It really helps. I go and it is the best thing for me. You have somebody who is objective about your situation and somebody to bounce ideas off of. So please do think about it.

Take care.

Hugs, Karen
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