I am sorry this is happening to you and I have been in your position in a little different way...........so special hugs to you.
Perhaps you could discuss with your boyfriend your feelings and he could talk with his sister.
No matter where we go, we will face people who are negative, people who oppose our ideas, people who tick us off or people who simply do not like us. I’ve learned that when someone initiates negativity, it is a reflection of their inner state expressed externally and you just happen to be in front of that expression.
Many times when a person like your boyfriend' sister initiates a negative message or difficult attitude, they are trying to trigger a response from you. When you react, you are actually giving them what they want. Let’s stop the cycle of negative snowballing and sell them short on what they’re looking for; don’t bother responding. As tough as this may be, don't let her get to you. She's most likely trying to get a rise out of you and that won't help the situation in the least.
You are a very special, unique, and valuable person. You deserve to feel good about myself.
I wish you peace,
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