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laura92
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   Posted 1/21/2011 10:30 PM (GMT -6)   
so i currently have a bf but i never feel like im good enough kinda been hurt alot and so only thing that ever comes into my head are bad thoughts that like maybe hes cheating or he gunna leave me . see i was malestead at age 11 so i am very scared of being alone i want to know that i have someone to save me but i have to get over these bad thoughts or im gunna ruin my realationship cuz of acuseing him of things such as cheating and stuff.

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 1/21/2011 11:00 PM (GMT -6)   
hi laura92, jamie here. communication is the key. maybe it is time 4 some couples counselling/and or a deep n' meaningful. he needs to know what your feeling. maybe writing down some things will help with your talk. keep well, and welcome to the forum. this is a very understanding community. i hope you feel that you can continue to post and let us know how you are going. healings 2 you. with compassion, jamie
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laura92
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   Posted 1/21/2011 11:21 PM (GMT -6)   
thank u

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 1/21/2011 11:31 PM (GMT -6)   
you are very welcome. jamie.
SCHIZO-AFFECTIVE DISORDER, EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER, BORDERLINE TYPE -AXIS 2 , BI-POLAR AFFECTIVE DISORDER AXIS 1

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

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   Posted 1/22/2011 7:22 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Laura,

I agree with Jamie. Couples counseling and maybe even some individual counseling. Tell yourself that if he is cheating, so be it, you love him anyway. Then the thoughts will stop coming. That is what i did with my first husband. And then I wasn't as suspicious. Jealousy is really the green eyed monster. It can really take a toll on us. So try not to be that way. Tell yourself you don't care. It really does help. Kind of a mind game on yourself.

I highly recommend one on one counseling for you. It will take these fears away and you wont be so dependant on another person. You want to be strong for yourself.

Best wishes hon,

Hugs, Karen
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