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worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/23/2011 1:57 AM (GMT -6)   
i had this on my mind and i want to share it. you are a very valuable friend to me. you have helped me through alot with my work and my ADD and helped me in ways even hubby hasnt been able to. you see things different then he does and he just doesnt understand completely although bless him he is trying to. you are caring, compassionate, funny, sensitive, stubborn(lol), optimistic, charming, sensitive, smart, and loving. you have a big heart and you help others even when you are hurting. i know its hard to move on but you must. you must start living your life for you and no one else no matter who they are. in order to love you must llove yourself. i have learned that now, my friend, you must learn it too. it doesnt matter what people say or do or think about you, if you love yourself isnt that all that counts. go to counseling and talk to your counselor. its time to make a decision about which way your life is heading and i think that once you make that final decision you will be able to move on with your life and be happy. sometimes a change in scenery helps(you can always come meet me lol). know that i love you. im saying this here where all can see that i love you my friend. you are my friend and in so many ways my brother.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are


"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/25/2011 6:04 PM (GMT -6)   
when you make a decision about your life and if it is to move on from your spouse i want you to keep your heart open to love for if we stop looking for love and receiving love then essentially we are dead. each relationship we have is meant to teach us a lesson and sometimes after it is taught then it is time to move on. dont place any blame for essentially both are to blame just let go. learn the lesson God wanted you to learn and then go from there. God may send you another love that is meant for you and meant to be forever but if you close your heart to love you will miss out. God will be ok with you moving on to another love someday even if you dont remarry. i want you to figure out what lesson your spouse was sent to teach you and then live it and love again.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are


"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/27/2011 9:39 AM (GMT -6)   
tyoungmil, you have a lot to offer a woman and you dont have to wine and dine and impress her just be you. that would be enough. you are not damaged goods and it would be a shame for you to give up love and companionship. you can find a woman with the qualities that you express. im not saying go right now but be open for it. you are wonderful and have alot to offer a girl. im sure your parents are not disappointed in you or even in their looks but your perception of how you feel about yourself. i am sorry but i am sure you are imagining the disappointment you see in their eyes. im sure they are extremely proud of you. you could fit any bill and i bet you already do. please just keep your heart open.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are


"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/28/2011 12:04 PM (GMT -6)   
i think thats true. sometimes we get burned but we need to get back up on that horse, i am trying to do that myself. not a good day for me yesterday my co rode me hard cause i made a big mistake because my eyes are acting up. my counselor is not in on tuesday and i open next tuesday and its been 3 weeks since i saw him. im going crazy i feel i need him and im edgy.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are


"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

getting by
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   Posted 1/28/2011 12:51 PM (GMT -6)   
Try to relax WG and take things one step at a time. We all make mistakes and the co sounds like she gets upset easy. Don't let it weigh on your mind, I am sure she let it go.
We tend to remember the things we do wrong better than the things we do right. I was thinking about this last night. I always remember mistakes or embarrassing moments, but don't remember the good things.

I hope that you have a wonderful day.

Hugs, Karen
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worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/28/2011 3:40 PM (GMT -6)   
yeah ty i agree with you two and as for you im not talking about right now or even in the next year just be open is all i am saying, once your life is where you need it to be and you have figured out things. just dont give up on the love is all im saying. i just want to be here for you, let you know that i care and that i support you. you are a good man and that is all i want to say it.
The only person who can make you happy is you. Be your own self and love who you are because each and every one of you are wonderful for who you are


"No one really dies because they have loved. Because they love they stay in the hearts of the people they have touched so in that their memory lives on." Ghost whisperer-i know corny but this touched me deep down and i see so much truth in it.

getting by
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   Posted 1/28/2011 4:43 PM (GMT -6)   
I agree with WG. You are a good man.

Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression,allergies
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