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worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/28/2011 11:14 PM (GMT -6)   
i was starting to feel so good and now im feeling down again and for no good reason. i had to cancel last counseling session due to work and he is not in next thursday and he rescheduled me but i have to work that day too. 3 weeks and i feel as if i am struggling. i was doing good, why do i feel i need him. will i ever feel right without going to a counselor? im not severly depressed, just ADD but i feel as if i am falling and i have made a few mistakes even didnt do good on a mbs checklist for food safety and ops leader(it measures  how good i do) and i normally pass so i have to redo it. my gm was soo disappointed. then i missed something on our food order and ordered 3 items that we werent supposed to which took us out of our budget and now my co is mad at me again. says i am better than that and  he is gonna push me which i wonder if that means he will treat me like crap again. if so i cant take it. i messed up i know, my eyes arent focusing right and i have a bad sinus cold so that dont help matters. i forgot to take my meds for a week which threw me off, i know i am a screwup, well i wont do that again. i need my counselor and he is only in on tuesdays and it looks like it will be 2 weeks before i can see him again.
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   Posted 1/29/2011 6:27 AM (GMT -6)   
WG,

I know how it is to miss your meds. I forgot them one morning and I had a really hard day until I noticed that I forgot them. I keep a pill box, that might help you to remember. I take a lot of different meds though. Nine different things. So if I forget one, I forget them all. Well, ten different things with the Chantix.

Try not to let these things get to you. Start each day fresh as if the past didn't happen. If your boss hangs onto your mistake, it is their problem, not yours. Though they could make it yours by treating you badly. And if that is the case, then look forward to that transfer. Are they still going to transfer you?

Check and double check things. Your orders and such. Often we miss something. That is easy to do. So don't think of yourself as a failure. It is a mistake and that is why they call it such. We all make them. That is a part of life. All you can do is appologize. Maybe they can get what you need from another store. When you are placing an order, take your time. Don't let anybody rush you. I can't stand somebody rushing me. It makes me nervous and I do forget. My husband rushed me off to go shopping the other day and I forgot my list. I only missed two items on it though so that wasn't bad. But I can live with that.

Know that you are a fantastic person. Don't think lightly of yourself. You are smart, you are ambitious. And most of all, you are a good person. So always remember that.

With that being said, I am going to end here. I hopet that this finds you haveing a great day.

Hugs, Karen
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worriedgirl
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   Posted 1/29/2011 3:03 PM (GMT -6)   
thank  you guys i appreciate it. im just wondering why i feel the need to speak to my counselor, am i dependant on him? is that a bad thing? i know that some of the reason i was feeling so good was because of speaking to him each week. will i ever get past the need to speak to him.

getting by
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   Posted 1/29/2011 4:07 PM (GMT -6)   
You may WG or you may need to talk to somebody for awhile. That is your lifeline. And there is nothing wrong when you need somebody to talk to. Or to listen. He is an objective ear and that is what we need.

Don't feel bad for this. At least you are taking initiative to help yourself and that says a lot.

Keep up the good work. I see my counselor on a regular basis. Sometimes we just talk like friends. But it still does me good.

Hugs, Karen
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