I doubt that he would be allowed to come into that store again since he robbed it. And he is going to be on probation. That helps. I would do whatever you are comfortable with at the time. I don't think that he would want revenge on you. But it really is hard to say. It would be more like he would want revenge on the cops. It is really hard to say what is in his mind. Call the police and talk to them about it. See what they say. A restraining order might be good. What makes your husband think he would want revenge? Does he know the guy? Did you know him?
I don't think that he would be getting power over you if you transfer. As I recall, you planned on it anyway. He may not even remember you other than the girl that was at the place he robbed. Try not to think about it for awhile, and do call the police to see if you need to do anything. You are giving him power by worrying. I am sorry that you got robbed. That must have been pretty scarey. Like I said before, go with where you feel the safest.
Try to relax.
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