She has not gone back to her mothers for good but she is going up there alot. She has a boyfriend here and I think that she is going up there with him and her mother is allowing him to sleep there, something we would never allow. I know that what she does and how she turns out is not my problem but my husband and I have given up so much not only financially but emotionally aswell. I just feel that I have gone through all this stress for her to go back to her moms guite often when apparantly it was so bad up there. My husband has forked over thousands of dollars for her teeth because her mother never took her to the dentist and it was becoming a health issue. She also had to have braces and I don't think she is appreciating any of it. They are probably talking at her moms about
how bad it is here and that my stepdaughter never thought it was going to be like this. I think when she came here she thought there was going to be now rules or discipline and that is why she came here. Her Dad can be very soft on her especially when he only saw her every second weekend. Anyone who has any feedback would be greatly appreciated.