I know that it is hard. Nothing good comes easy. I think by leaving him alone, it will get him to thinking. If he is still interested he will contact you. I don't know why he has changed since being with the guys.
But as they say "If you love something let it go. If it is yours, it will come back to you. If it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be." I don't know if those are the exact words, but I tried.
Letting something go is hard. But you have to have faith that it will come back. If it doesn't, then you can move on with your life. The most important thing for you to do right now is to better yourself. If you are in school, work on your studies. If not, take each day and try to learn something. Try to do good things. Live your life the best that you can. I guess what I am saying is you got to live for you. Not for somebody else. Though I know this is hard for you. And it probably feels like the end of the world. But it isn't. We meet many people before we settle down. Most do anyway. This is your time of life to grow and learn. After you settle down, it is raising kids and you are living for them. It isn't easy. So enjoy your life now. Live for you. It isn't selfish. It is what we need to develope and grow and make a future for ourselves.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies