Glad to hear you're hanging on. I hope you realize how strong you truly are. We beat ourselves up sometimes b/c we can't "do it all", but honestly I doubt most people could handle everything you're facing right now with as much grace & strength as you've shown. You are an amazing woman(!) & deserve a good share of praise for all you've done to provide stability to your family during an horribly difficult time.
I think a second opinion from a different lawyer is a good idea (not sure about
a third -- at some point that just adds to the confusion). I switched lawyers & am much better off for it. There are multiple lawyers in my current attorney's practice (I've found that's the best way to go when things are as complicated as what we face) who specialize in different aspects of financial law.
One place to look, besides personal referrals from people who've worked in the legal field, is www.martindale.com/
. Lawyers have to pay to be listed in Martindale, but most of them do. A good number of the lawyers are Peer Review Rated. It doesn't mean anything if they're not rated, but if they are rated it can tell you if they know how to practice law or not. If they are given a high rating, all you'll have to worry about
is whether you can get along with them personally. :)
Glad you figured out who I am. As you can tell, things have gotten super stressful with the usual culprits. idk how, but they seem to have figured out my old ID. They're not great at technology , so as long as I don't do anything to show up in a search by my old name, I'm pretty sure I'm safe. I need to learn to not let them bother me so, but that's mucho therapy $. So I changed my Screen Name.
Maybe you will be my inspiration for house cleaning.
I've not done more than 90 minutes a day -- if that. Gotta get clean by next weekend.
Keep hanging in there. We all luv ya.