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IWantToSmileAgain
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   Posted 2/6/2011 9:30 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey guys,
So I went to a super bowl party tonight and ran into my mom (she's friends with my friends mother). Anyway, she came up to me and said hi..it was awkward. Then, later I asked her if she could talk to me for a minute. I said mom why haven't you spoken to me in like over a week? She said, "I'm a bad mother" started to laugh,and walked away. I'm really sad and I feel like it does not even matter. Should I even bother contacting her?


Thanks,

Britt <3

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   Posted 2/7/2011 1:18 AM (GMT -6)   
britt, i feel she needs some time. with compassion, jamie. sorry about your situation.
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Geosojda
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   Posted 2/7/2011 5:48 AM (GMT -6)   
Sorry you are put in that situation. i agree with jamiee, you reached out first that took guts, she may just need some time.
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.

IWantToSmileAgain
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   Posted 2/7/2011 8:14 AM (GMT -6)   
Thanks guys,

I'm just going to keep being nice I guess..
-britt <3

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   Posted 2/7/2011 9:12 AM (GMT -6)   
Britt,

I am so sorry for your situation with your mom. Maybe she said it right saying that she is a bad mother. I had a bad mother too, so I understand. It is hard to think about. But my heart goes out to you. Just keep being nice like you said. You are a good person.

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IWantToSmileAgain
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   Posted 2/7/2011 9:22 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Karen,

You had a bad mother too? Im sorry to hear that, it's horrible sometimes. She actually just called me and was kind of nice so I don't know. That's how it is with our relationship I guess. I am just going to keep being nice..

Thanks for all of the support it means a lot! :)

-Britt <3

Geosojda
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   Posted 2/7/2011 11:57 AM (GMT -6)   
I guess thats all you can do, be the bigger person i guess. It would be her loss not to be involved in your life.
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.
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