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sophie96
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Date Joined Jan 2011
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   Posted 2/7/2011 1:29 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi, its sophie here,
 
Recentally i asked for some help from my friends cause i wass finding it so hard but they all said they couldnt cope with my problems as well as theirs then the others who i called my 'friends' decided they didnt like me and had a massive go at me which didnt help, I have always hated myself but to have others hate me aswell made it worse and i have gone in a downwarrd spiral since and i dont know what to do! there is no one to talk  to anymore please someone hellp. Thanks xx

getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 2/7/2011 2:11 PM (GMT 0)   
Hi Sophie,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum.

I am sorry that it feels your friends turned their back on you. When people aren't depressed, they don't understand it. And often we fear what we don't understand. So that is probably what is going on.

I highly suggest that you make an appointment with a counselor. They are there for you and they support you. In life, not everybody is going to like us. That is true for everybody. But to have all your friends act like that is terribly hard to deal with. I am sure that they don't all hate you.

You have to learn to love yourself. You are worthy of love, and I feel once you love yourself, it doesn't matter if other people like you or not. You wont need that anymore.

So please do talk to a therapist. And keep posting here as we all do care and want to support you.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
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Geosojda
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   Posted 2/7/2011 2:15 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi sophie, welcome to HW! We are glad you had the courage to post. It sounds like you are having a rough time of things right now. Could you give us a little info on your self? You don't have to of course but it helps us. Are you able to get into a counselor or therapist? If you are school age try talking to your counselor, they are trained to deal with this sort of thing. It sounds like you need to talk with a professional about your self image. It really helps to get these things out. Yes it is very hard to make first contact with a therapist or counselor but will help you greatly.
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.

sophie96
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Date Joined Jan 2011
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   Posted 2/8/2011 11:40 AM (GMT -6)   
Thank you both, its nice to know there are people out there, I am 14 and go to school in London, I am too scared to go to anyone in school because of what people will say. I hate what I look like and how I act and I wish I could change it but I cant, I am trying to make contact with my doctors so I can see a counciller but I just wish my friends would help me xx

getting by
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   Posted 2/8/2011 5:21 PM (GMT -6)   
Your friends probably don't understand what you are going through. I think it is wise that you are going to call the doctor. Good way to be proactive.

Let us know how everything goes.

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia


fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies
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