JUST NEED SOME ADVICE

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ihaveaproblem
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   Posted 2/17/2011 11:25 AM (GMT -6)   
ok.. im hoping some people on here are older than me and have been through this sort of stuff. my name is tim, im 15 and im going out with this girl. and she is amazing. in theory i should be unbelivably happy - but for some reason im beginnig to get depressed..
 
i first got depressed by thinking that i may only have untill the end of year 11 to be with her, then we'd go our seperate ways. and even now after talking to someone i still hate thinking about it.
 
i guess i just need to understand why im getting upset over such a happy situation??  it may be becasuse i havent ever liked a girl this much beforee.. but i just dont know. i need someone to answer my questions.
 
so yeh, any reply is appreciated.. especialy if youve been through this and can explain ..
 
tim

getting by
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   Posted 2/17/2011 11:48 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Tim,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum! I am glad that you have joined us.

First of all, try not to project into the future. Take it one day at a time. You never know what is going to happen. Since this is the first girl that you have been in love with, you are probably having feelings that you just don't understand yet. Take it slow. Things will work out and come clearer to you. You never know what the future holds.

There is a saying,
Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery.

Today is a gift,
That is why it is called the present.

Most important... Take life one day at a time. Stay in the moment. Enjoy eachothers company. Please don't worry about the future, it will work out for you.

Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

Chartreux
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   Posted 2/17/2011 12:22 PM (GMT -6)   
My first thing would be to say, your young and this is just your
first fling of romance, maybe step back and look at the situation better.
Take things slow,and enjoy your time with this girl while it makes you happy.
Try not to get too involved for now as you both are young.
Karen also had great advice...
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well wishes...
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Massimo
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   Posted 2/17/2011 1:10 PM (GMT -6)   
This girl likes you; there must be a reason why. You need to re-center yourself and identify all the great things about yourself. This will make you strong. I suggest that you start journaling every day, ie, write whatever you want, whenever you want in a journal: buy a lined notebook. Date the page and write whatever is on your mind. Anything! You need to identify and see yourself. Regards, N.

getting by
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   Posted 2/17/2011 4:16 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Massimo,

Welcome to the HealingWell Depression forum. I am so glad that you have posted on the forum.

Feel free to read other threads or even start a thread of your own to introduce yourself.

Take care, have a good day.

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia


fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies
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