what would you do if you were like this?

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chamari
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Date Joined Jan 2011
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   Posted 2/21/2011 12:33 AM (GMT -6)   
so i am going out with this guy for a while and he likes me and i sort of like him, but he doesn't treat me right and he's always hurting me emotionally. There's this other guy that i just met and he's really cute, funny and i kind of like him too but i don't know if i should take the chance and meet up with him because he wants to hang out... he doesn't know i have a boyfriend but i don't want to tell him or else he would want move on. i also don't want to be with my boyfriend because I'm never happy and every day we would always fight. So I'm in the process of trying deciding if i want to stay and get hurt all the time, or move on and find something new.
its difficult because i still have feelings for my boyfriend even though he is mean and selfish, but i also like the other guy because he's different...its also deciding if i should leave the one i love for the one i like...is it a good idea or not

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 2/21/2011 12:53 AM (GMT -6)   
chamari getting hurt is not right!!!!!!!!! either he makes the changes or you put him to the curb. the other guy you kinda like, well just be friends for a bit first. i would tell your current bf to get his act together, for via my perspective-a man, 38, this is not how you treat your lady. hoping this helps. be straight up with him. with compassion, jamie.
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babycream
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   Posted 2/21/2011 3:41 AM (GMT -6)   
hey Chamari,
You have the answer in ur hands but U dont know.....this first guy doesnt love you...if he loves u he wouldnt hurt you. Well, there are lill sparks that he likes you....but he likes to hurt you. and this second guy can be like him or cannot be. This is an oppurtunity to know the person. As u go out for the first date, make sure that you read him and know him....that way...you will have sth to keep urself busy and forget the first guy.
Yes...ITS a good idea to leave the first guy...and when u do that...tell him on his face.
All the best.
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