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AmandaCo
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   Posted 3/1/2011 1:52 PM (GMT -6)   
I moved to a new city with a boyfriend from college about a year ago. He is from the here and i am not i know no one. We broke up about five months ago. I took the break up really hard since we had been togethere for three years. I eventually came to realize that I was really sad about losing him because of the company he provided. So I decided to stay in the new city since I worked for a good company. I got my own apartment (we lived together) and started over with my life. I have seen him a couple times but I don't try to get in contact with him for fear of never fully recovering. The biggest problem that I'm having is that I have no motivation. I really wish I would have moved back to where I'm from. My family is really supportive and wants me to come home they and I believe it is the Best thing for me. I have never really liked the place I work for. Since now it's the only thing I have in this new place I've been really down. I hate my life here and have try to find a new job but its tough. I plan on moving home once my lease is up but until then I feel like I will be sad till that day comes. I want to Figure out how to think about this bad situation and try to make it positive before I leave but it seems to hard to do. I sleep work and repeat. I wish I had a different shift (second shift) is hard to find a life outside of.

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   Posted 3/1/2011 3:57 PM (GMT -6)   
How much longer do you have on your lease? Try taking life one day at a time until you can move. In the meantime there might end up being a reason that you would like to stay. What you're going through might seem difficult at this time, but I am sure that there is a reason for it. Things will work out for you. Be patient with yourself. Nurture yourself. Try to enjoy life as it is.

I am sorry about you and your boyfriend. Try to remember the good times. And add it to your life's experiences.

Hugs, Karen

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AmandaCo
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   Posted 3/2/2011 8:43 AM (GMT -6)   

I have till October till my lease is up.  I have tried to take it one day at a time.  The problem is that i have a new manager at work that has been making my life a living hell.  He is the kind of person that bullies his employees and makes them feel that they are replaceable.  It irritates me because i stayed just for this job and now I regret that decision immensely due to him.  I try really hard to not let him get to me but it is tougher then getting over the breakup at this point due to the fact that I am mad at myself for staying just for this job.  I need help on trying to make the relationship between him ( my manager) and I comfortable till I leave.


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   Posted 3/2/2011 11:07 AM (GMT -6)   
Will the manager talk to you about work and stuff? Sometimes that is a way to soften them up. I know the feeling. I have had managers like that and it feels like they are looking for mistakes. It made me nervous. Your situation sounds difficult. Is there any way that you can get out of the lease? Try and see. I know there are often legal issues and you can't but if you could and could move, you would be much happier I am sure.

Hugs, Karen
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