Confused and Sad:::Relationships

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Date Joined Mar 2011
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   Posted 3/4/2011 2:45 PM (GMT -6)   

Ok, so there is a lot on my mind right now. I'm class of 2012 in College but I'm graduating in May, so that's a year early. Yay for saving money, but I'm scared about leaving this place. My boyfriend moved 3 states away last June and wants me to leave everything I know and move there with him this June. He plans to propose, but I'm starting to question everything about our relationship. It's making me really sad...I haven't really eaten anything this week and I have been crying almost non-stop.
Another guy who I dated a few years ago, came back into my life as a friend this week as well. I was online and he instant messaged me and we had a great conversation Tuesday night, then went out dancing last night(thursday as friends). I feel like it's wrong that the highlight of my week was going dancing with a man I'm not even dating, plus I really wanted to kiss him when the night was over. I know that I love my boyfriend, so why am I having all these doubts and feelings about another guy. Maybe it just hit me at a vulnerable time or something. I don't know.
Anyway, I don't really know what my questions are and I'm knew to seeking help....but I'm tired of feeling lost, confused, and sad all the time.

love the girl named,

Post Edited (daisy__) : 3/4/2011 1:02:11 PM (GMT-7)

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   Posted 3/4/2011 5:27 PM (GMT -6)   

Relationships are a two-way street. If you are afraid of leaving your surroundings, talk with your boyfriend and be honest with him.

It seems like your friend was trying to show you a good time, sounds like you enjoyed his company. As far as the kiss, you didn't. Perhaps that shows your feelings for your current boyfriend more so than any residual feelings for your ex.

If you are this upset, not eating, maybe you should consider a counselor? College is stressful enough and finishing a year early can't help but to contribute to that stress.

BTW, welcome to the forum!
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