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   Posted 3/9/2011 3:09 AM (GMT -6)   
I was with my boyfriend for two years, on valentines day we had a fight but it wasn't something I lost sleep over. The next day we were both busy and hardly talked, but later that evening I gave him a call. When I said I loved him he just hung up. An hour later at 11pm, his parents called me and told me that he didn't want to see me anymore and to leave the family alone because I'd destroyed them entirely and if I ever went near them again, they'd call the police.
The next day I tried calling him, no answer so I thought itd be best to give him space. Since then I have received so much abuse and stress from him. He's spreading rumours about me so now I've lost all my friends and have noone to talk to, he ignores me completely and the only time I have ever received a reply from him was when I sent a text asking him when he wanted me to return his stuff left at my house and I got a reply saying; "leave me the **** alone, ive found someone else. I never want to talk to you again, to me, you're better off dead and to me, you are dead. I'm blocking your number and never contact me again you manipulative, self centred *****."
I know I'm not any of these things.. I know the rumours aren't true... I wake up every morning depressed and find it hard to summon the energy to get out of bed. I don't know what to do. I need a friend but I have none now and I need peace between me and him but he's pretending I'm dead... I don't even know why he ended it all I know is that my boyfriend of two years and my best friend of five years hates my guts :'(

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   Posted 3/9/2011 8:15 AM (GMT -6)   
There could be many reasons he is acting this way. His parents may have told him to. I don't know. But yeah I would give him a lot of space. You don't deserve to be talked to in this manner. I would keep my distance and start fresh. You are a nice person and you deserve a nice guy.

Take care, Try getting on with your life. I know it is hard, but he got on with his. You can too.

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   Posted 3/9/2011 9:43 AM (GMT -6)   
Thank you :/
I don't have much experience with depression which is why I'm seeking help so desperately... I'm in year 12 and need to do well this year. Waking up each day and having the motivation to move is a massive struggle. I don't know how long I can keep doing this for.
I don't want to sound pathetic but I'm scared of how this is affecting me. I need peace with the guy but he won't talk so how do I get over this depression? How do I clear my mind so I can get out of bed in the morning?

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   Posted 3/9/2011 9:55 AM (GMT -6)   
Its a tough one, but honestly it may just need time. I guess it probably hurts you much more because you never got any type of closure and based on your post he seems like a real jerk as does the family. But time can help heal you, also if there is a counselor or anyone you feel comfortable talking to about how you are feeling, i would recomend it. Its help get things out and maybe get a different perspective on things. Hope you feel better.
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   Posted 3/9/2011 6:30 PM (GMT -6)   
Ok, thank you so much for replying :)
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