Advise.. Boyfriend moving to Australia

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MQ12
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   Posted 3/9/2011 5:47 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi, recently the topic has came up about moving to australia. at the start me and my boyfriend were planning the move together now he is saying its something he wants to do alone but he hasnt decided yet. We have been with eaach other for almost 2 years and i know a long distance reltionship will not work out with us. i feel that he wants to go alone as an easy way to finish things with me. the thing is we have summer holidays booked and if he decides to go to australia alone then staying together to go on our holidays will make things more harder for me to let him go. he plans to go maybe january for a 3 month working holiday and if he likes it he plans on emigrating. im so upset about this and havnt stopped thinking about it. i need advice on how i can persuade him to bring me along with him.
 
thanks . MQ confused

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   Posted 3/9/2011 6:13 AM (GMT -6)   
hi mq. time for a face 2 face talk. say it like it is, i too feel he is worming his way out of the relationship. but why? this bit is worrisome. you deserve the truth. i hope you make it down together, it is a beautiful place, ok i am biased, yep your speaking to an aussie. get the truth. with compassion, jamie.
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MQ12
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   Posted 3/9/2011 7:17 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi, thanks for your advise im hoping we get down together too, i really want to make it work... r you from queensland??
mq

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   Posted 3/9/2011 7:53 AM (GMT -6)   
victoria. with compassion, jamie.
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   Posted 3/9/2011 8:32 AM (GMT -6)   
I hope this isn't to end the relationship. I agree with Jamie, and honest talk would be warrented. Let him know what you suspect and that taking the holiday would make it harder for you. Be totally honest and be prepared for the thought that he might be wanting to break it off. You will have then to get on with your life. We can help you through this. Maybe it is legit though. You have to talk and find out. That is scarey too. But just be honest and keep an open mind. I hope tht this works out for you. I hope that you get to go with him.

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