I am new here. I am very depressed (relapse ) and need some help. I had weight loss surgery feb 7 2011. I been going through depression since because I feel so different then who I was before the surgery. Now I have no appetite, dont want to eat, and feel like something is wrong with me because 1 yogurt fills me up. Its stressful. Then 3 weeks ago my mom fell and sprained her knee and to make it worse 1 week after her knee was sprained she fell again and broke her wrist. I am best friends with my mom and seeing her like this with a knee brace and a soft cast on her wrist is making me so upset. She is now going for wrist surgery. I been out of work for 5 weeks due to the surgery. I been getting anxiety thinking about going back to work. I been crying at the drop of a dime. I wake up feeling to vomit and dont want to eat, bad headaches, dizzy at times, sleeping alot, fatigued, just no ambition to do anything. I lost abt 25 pounds since the surgery and I am not even happy about it. I cant smile. Nothing makes me happy. I am on effexor and cymbalta. My doctor increased my effexor to 225 mg from 150 mg. I am hoping this helps. Anyone ever been through something like this with a relapse ? Any advice is greatly appreciated..